Syempre sasali tayo sa usaping Slater Young at Kryz Uy. Bilang bet ko yung videos ng anak nilang si Scottie hahaha
According sa mga nabasa ko sa Twitter, (di na ako nakinig sa podcast nila dahil naniniwala ako na karamihan ng podcasts ay pasikatan lang ng mga beliefs na feeling nila ay superior over other people's opinion) hindi naman talaga walking green flag si Slater, based sa podcast episodes nila. Muka lang syang ideal because that's how they are posing or that's what they want the world to see sa vlogs nila or sa posts. Aba malamang! Social Media is crap! It's an endless cycle of making the world believe that you are living the best life and not falling apart.
Anyway, back to the issue na sabi ni Slater, it's ok to fantasize other women kahit you are in a committed relationship. In his case, may asawa na sya. Sabi nya it's very very normal since he has friends, in their gc na nagssend ng pictures ng ibang babae, and comment about the physical beauty and all. Which sabi ni tita mong Kryz is ok. Meron pa pala, na ok lang daw to catch her husband watching porn, and would actually ask permission to join him. To which he replied na he prefers to do it alone. If you think about it, super weird for Kyrz to remain her cool when her husband is like committing a digital adultery already, but then...here comes the relationship dynamics of a couple. If that's ok with them, their set up works for them, bakit nakikialam ang sambayanang Pilipino? Bakit andaming self righteous sa mga keyboard warriors, when in fact some of them are kabit? hahaha. Some of them are not even in a relationship to advice them what to do and not do. Yes, if you will be in Kryz's shoes, you'd be disgusted...kung lang ha? Pero are you her? Hindi? Edi as the saying goes, Shut up ka na lang.
Sa mga personal na bagay na ganto rin kasi, masyado nating ineexpose ang sarili natin sa mundo. It's like inviting people to our lives and giving them the power to have a "say" in your life eh. If you post it publicly, then pwede ka na ma okray. But then, we really should have the utak to think for ourselves and look for the other person's welfare din diba? Like safeguard each other, and not the other way around. Pero parang ang hirap nyan sa panahon ngayon. We are creating a digital world of hate, envy, and division.
The problem in this world is not the internet or the marital issue of our kapitbahay, or the lives of celebrities itself, it's how people react to it. The main problem is the users of all social media platforms. Puta andaming matalino, andaming analyst, andaming religious, andaming guidance counselor every time there is an issue. Pakiramdam ko nasa iisang malaking school lang tayo na madami tayong kaklase na bida bida. Andaming opinion pero di naman sya perfect. Lamoyun? Bakit nga ba? Nakakahiya naman sa mga forefathers ng technology, ng mga gantong breakthroughs dati. Ang goal nila was to connect people, pero ang nangyayare we are just fucking with each other online. Puta tayo din talaga papatay sa mundo natin eh.
Anyway, going back kina Slater at Kryz. If they are happy with how their marriage is going. If the shit they put out online works for them, let them be. Fucking shut up for once if your life is not perfect. At the end of the day, you don't fucking provide anything for their survival so what makes you think that you have the right to counsel them about how they want to project themselves to their spouse? Hindi din naman kayo sumali sa churche wedding. hahaha.
Ok yun lang, sana magkaron ng milagro at maging self aware ang mga tao sa mundo. It's still a mystery to me how one can be so angry at another person online, tapos pag nakilala mo in person hindi naman ganun ang pakilala nya. So sino ang totoong tao sa dalawang persona? hahaha.
Kung meron kayong alam na docus dyan studying internet/online behavior of people, hit me up! :)
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